Get Ready for Toilet Training

​​​*Information in this section was originally developed by a team that created a website for families focused on “raising deaf kids” (see About Us​). The content may have been edited or updated.

Get ready to spend a lot of time in the toilet! Relax and enjoy spending this special time with your child. Read this page for ideas to help your child get ready for
potty training:

Talk to your child ​​​


  • Before you start, make sure that you both know the words or signs for toilet, pee and poop (if you are signing to your child).
  • Talk about how the body works. Tell her she needs to wait to pee or poop in the potty or toilet.
  • Use pictures to teach your child how to use the potty or toilet:
    • In the bathroom put up pictures showing the steps to take. This will help your child know what to do.
    • Include a picture showing someone washing her hands after using the toilet or have a picture of the sink and soap.
  • Avoid words like "dirty" or "stinky” when you explain how her body works. This might embarrass her.
  • Tell her why it is good to use the potty:
    • No more diaper rash
    • She will be clean and dry.
    • It is an important step towards growing up.
  • Use dolls or action figures to show your child how to use the potty. Make it fun!
    • Train the doll to go to the potty.
    • Praise and give a sticker or small reward when the doll goes to the potty successfully.
    • Use this as a way to encourage your child. If she uses the potty successfully, she can also get a sticker or other small reward.
  • With your child color pictures of a boy (for boys) or a girl (for girls) using the potty. While coloring, explain how one uses the toilet. You can find sample coloring pages at Printable Going Potty Coloring Pages - Coloring Home Choose a potty-training chair or the adult toilet seat.

The Potty Chair


  • Your child can sit comfortably. You can also move it to different places around the house.
  • Let your child put stickers on it. Let her sit on it and watch TV. This will help her get used to it.
  • Take her to the potty chair whenever she needs to go. Tell her how to use it and what to do.
  • Show her what you mean by throwing what's in her dirty diaper into the potty.

The Adult-Size Toilet Seat


  • It is easy to clean up. It makes using toilets away from home easier for your child.
  • Get a small step stool so your child can climb on and off the toilet. Also, get an adjustable seat.
  • Remember to explain to her how to use the toilet whenever she needs to go.

For some direction on deciding if your child is ready to potty train, visit: Potty Training Tips (boystownpediatrics.org)

https://www.boystownpediatrics.org/knowledge-center/toilet-training

https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/infant-and-toddler-health/in-depth/potty-training/art-20045230​