How
do we Decide? The Key to Making Good Decisions
The
key to making good decision for your child is knowing all
of the options that are available, educating ourselves about
those options, and not being pressured into making a decision
until we have enough information to feel comfortable to
do so.
~"Before
making decisions for your child, be sure to get all of
the information you can from reliable sources. Make the
decision based on the best information you can get at
the time, and don't look back."
~"The
key to making good decisions is information. Get this
information from books, from other parents, from deaf
adults, from wherever you can get it."
~"For
us, the key was always taking the time to educate ourselves.
Sometimes that meant not making a decision right away.
Most of the time an extra day or two will not make a difference,
and to make a good decision you often need a little more
time to do the research and feel good about the decision
you make."
~"Ask
experts around you questions and become informed. Play
an active role in your child's education. Don't be afraid
to push for what you believe is best for your child."
~"Knowing
all of your options and talking with as many people as
possible that have chosen different things and seeing
what their outcomes were is key to making good decisions."
~"Some
of the keys for making good decisions are education, loving
concern, and prayer for wisdom! Don't be left in the dark
about your child's condition, and don't assume that your
child is exactly like another child with the same disability.
Two children might have entirely different options before
them, as there are so many factors to consider. You need
to find what is best for your child, since you are the
closest one to him. Don't try to put that responsibility
on others."
~"Keep
the goal in mind. My goal was to have a literate, normal
kid. My decisions were based on what I would do if my
child could hear, and to best teach English to my child."
~"The
key to making good decisions is being informed and educated."